Yesterday, i have gone through an article named 'stammering demystified' by Tanveer Rameez Ali
ex- trustee,British Stammering Association.In it he explained stammering phenomena very accurately using logical approach.It is neuro-motor desynchronisation
as brain(telling to speak) sends the signal to our motor
system(physical part for speech making) which is sometime missed or weak and do not reach as it is expected.It lies some where in genes.In some persons it is dominant and notable .But this is
only 10% .In order to tackle this we add physio and psycho layer,making ourself 100% stammerer.
And our recovery path includes thinning of physio and psycho layer...
we would be fine when left with only 10% i assure..
It answer well why some people acquire stammering at later stage..whenever at what stage we are
this neuro motor desynchronisation happen stammering will result..

Our motto should be to deal with physio and psycho part first..

एक सलाह ....उनके लिए जो हकलाते है

मैं जब स्कूल में था...तो बहुत जायदा बोलने में समस्या होती थी ...क्लास में जब TEACHER खड़े होकर
कुछ पड़ने के लिए कहते थे तो प्राण सूख जाते थे..मजबूरी में कई बार रुक-रुक कर पढ़ पाता था
कभी कोई कुछ पड़ने के लिए कह दे तो बहुत दिक्कत हो जाती थी ...मुझे याद है जब किसी के यहाँ रामायण का पाठ होता तो मैं कभी अकेले नहीं पड़ता था .. लेकिन धीरे धीरे कोसिस की..आत्मविश्वास बढाया
तो पड़ने का अभ्यास होने लगा...लेकिन बोलने में अबभी दिक्कत थी
तभी मेरा रुझान थोडा अध्यातम की ओर हुआ ..और प्राणायाम और ध्यान के बारे में जानकारी हुई
में आज यह कह सकता हूँ प्राणायाम से हकलाने वाले के लिए बहुत फायदा है ..इसके बहुत सारे फायदे हैं
ये हमारे सांस को नियंत्रित करता है जिसका बोलने में बहुत बड़ा ROLE है ..इसके साथ हमे गहरी सांस लेने की
आदत पड़ती है जो बोले की प्रक्रिया को आसन करती है..और दिमाग के विशेष हिस्से में प्राण पहुचने से
आत्मविश्वास बढता है ...मैंने इसका अभ्यास दो वर्ष तक किया ...और ज्यादातर शब्दों को ठीक से बोल पाता हूँ ...अब काफी सुधार है ..

dear stammerers,
i am missing that i was not able to attend the meeting with keith boss in delhi organised by tisa.
i tried to follow him through reports on tisa-blog...........he says communication is 55% body
language,38% tone and 7% speech.so,we stammerers have ray of hope as we can work on other
things as well.so, i will advice u loudly..gear up and work on ur communication....u can score
well by right approach.this will really help us in interviews also(......most feared aspect of a
stammerer).
another thing which clicked me is the speaking styles i.e. medial and lateral one should try to speak with lateral style to melt the stammering ice-berg.
one more thing i came to know that stammering is caused by some genes that makes a person more susceptible to stammering.
and last tthing is philosphy of positivity...as he says convert ur negative thought to postive ones.

STILL WAITING....

you know, i'm stammerer.nothing new...,this virtue(?) proved me boon for me a no of times for
example,i used to get attracted by opposite sex easily,but stammering always stopped me;hence i avoided some special situations which might happen with me.i avoided to talk much occasionaly
this gave impression on teachers and others of introvert ,though i was slightly different from this self.i gained sympathy & good will with it.i got image of a shy person but know one knows it was my limitation not true self.i tried my best to hide my discontinued speech.i started to swallow the words,sentence or even thoughts if they refuses to come out.but ,i was very sincere in hiding my stammer.i do not like to discuss it with my kins,friends or wellwisher.friend used to comment"niraj u r very intelligent,u should try for civil services or some other thing that is noteworthy,how u become a jto in bsnl."i used to take a sigh and to say myself that he don't know my reality,i am a stammerer ,i will not able to excel in inerviews or group disscussions;it is my sheer luck that i got in job in bsnl where there was no interview and i was best in written at that time.but in my conscience,i 've put the blame on my stammering and luck,that why i am not able to do some noteworthy.easy game is to hold responsible for all that wrong happened in your life to stammering,this naive stammering sinks all my blames and make me light.
though, i am lazy but it always pushed me to do hard work with studies.because of that only what i am today is(........i should not hesitate to admit it).also ,i got some spritual flavor in my life
because of this virtue only.sprituality helped me to boost my confidence see things differently.
i owe it a lot of things............so there is no reason to hide it, just feel good about it.............
still waiting response from stammeres to share......about it

stammerers please....come out

this is niraj dixit,30, an engineer & stammerer from meerut.i have attended a workshop on communication(..stammering..) at vikas nagar,dehradun.it was conducted by tisa(the indian
stammering association) a non-profit organisation run by stammerers itself.why all this i am
telling you?......reason behind it is that there i learnt to help myself by helping other...............
................... .so,i knew some amazing facts about stammering there...like when you are
ready to admit about your stammering,you have better control over it..i practised there some
there some techniques about which i had never heard before...it can do wonder for person who
stammer....but mere knowing about these will do nothing.."rome was not built in a day"..one
need consistence support & will to control his stammering.so need is to build a platform where
we can learn,discuss,enjoy&help each other.i invite persons who stammer from meerut or nearby place to join this self help group.we will conduct meetings & activity on regular basis.in it,
we can talk as we please.we don't need to strangle words in fear of stammering and find way to
stay afloat when we use to lose our hope.
so,friends ! don't hesitate to come out..talk about your stammering.
because no one except you can help in this matter..
talk to me on no-9412783111 & my mail id is nirajdixit@rediff.com